March 24, 2008

Odrei's Disarming

    A girl’s mind is baffling.  A teenager girl’s mind is impossible.

    On a drive to UP for our hear-mass-then-food-trip Sunday routine, my temper-handling mechanism has its hands full.  The sunlight lie quietly on every leaf, pebble, and edifice.  The birds, which are invisible to my absorbed mind during weekdays, suddenly become apples of my eyes as they fly conspicuously low and slowly.  The wind slithers on my cheeks as I fix the arm of the speedometer at a nonchalant 40 KPH.  The acrid smell of grating rubber on asphalt pervertedly indulges my olfactory sense.  The spell of the Sabbath has arrived, making everything a vessel for sobriety, save for my stirring temper.      

    Odrei decides to be mute again.  It’s the inanimate passenger seat cradling her that does the speaking with its occasional squeaks.  Her silence is the silence from hell.  Utterly irritating, the hush caresses the death instinct slumbering in my unconscious pulling it to wakefulness.  She’s got the pose of apathy perfected.  Her feet are tuck under her thighs, arms are crossed, cheek is turned towards the passing world outside, and her poker face is accented by smoked glasses.  No wonder people found Nietzsche obnoxious during his vow of silence.      

   

    Time is relative.  It is a twenty-minute drive from Morato to UP, but it feels like forever.  Manalac bellows over the radio, Kasalanan bang humingi ako sa langit ng isang himala.  It will take a miracle now for her to talk. 

   

    Traffic lights change from red to green.  Cat’s eyes are asleep, but not the sun, which is getting more labile by the minute.  Even the sun is irked by Odrei’s stoicism.  The nearest star now starts to beat down on creation.  The earth’s temperature rises together with my temper.

   

    My car’s velocity threads along the passing of time, which seem to be in super slow motion because of the deafening silence.  The wheels continue to turn with valor on the now-searing asphalt.  The engine grinds still but with vendetta in every pump. 

   

    This is the calm after the storm, which is a silly argument about a fucking pizza.
An hour ago, while waiting for her to finish her rituals in front of the dresser, I lay slouched on her couch, tinkering her mobile phone.   “Honey, there was this student of mine who brought me pizza yesterday.  Isn’t that sweet?”
    “Was she pretty?”
    “Not really. She was hot though.”
    “Hmp.  Maybe she was flirting with you.”
    “Possibly.”
    “And you accepted the pizza?”
    “Of course I did. “
    “But why, if you knew she was flirting.”
    “It’s presumptuous to think that way.  Maybe she simply felt like giving her prof         pizza.”

   

    Silence. 

   

    Summer was around the corner and so the antiquated electric fan, with its cobwebs and all, was most valuable among the few appliances in the room.  It even doubles as a sound effects machine with its dreary mechanical hum interrupted by snarls every time it jerks its head like en epileptic. 
    I was anxious to take off to UP and chomp on its best delicacy, the isaw.  Apparently, Odrei’s mind was on a different place and time.
    “She was flirting.  You know that.”
    “But honey, I had to be grateful.  Besides, I was fucking famished.  Ten more               minutes and I’ll be famished again.  Can you hurry up a bit honey?”
    “But you shouldn’t have accepted the pizza!”
    “Gosh.  Are we having this argument right now?  Forget about it, come on let’s         go.”
    “But you’re not listening.”

 

    I gazed through the window.  A gay ten-year-old boy was playing taguan with two lesbians in their puberty.  Gayness exuded from their faces.   Ella ella eh eh, hollers the radio from the sari-sari store.   

    “Honey, who was the chick who sang this song?  It’s a pretty good song.”

 

    One minute.  Two minutes.

 

    “Honey?”

 

    “Maybe you like her that’s why you accepted the pizza.”
My ears felt hot.  The singer’s serenading over the radio couldn’t prevent what happened next.

 

    I stood up and barked.  “Where the hell did you get that idea?  Will you please be reasonable!  Can’t you understand?  It was a platonic gesture from a student!  Do you want me to be rude to people?  Up until now you’re still so immature!  I don’t care if you’re only 19.  You’ve got to understand things!  Fuck.”

    The electric fan rumbled apathetically.  The kids played on.  The DJ jabbered.  I barked on.  “Do you really think it was wrong for me to eat the fucking pizza?     Huh?  Answer me?”   

    She sat motionless facing her dresser.  I heard a sob, a tiny silent sob. 
“No.”  Then she decided to be mute.

 

    What she gave me next was more torturous.  Her silence.

    As we now pass by the oblation, her posture is unnerved, her silence, unbroken.  Over the radio croons the songstress again.  You had my heart.  We’ll never be worlds apart.  I was itching to ask her the name of the artist, but kept the query to my self.

    I’m wondering when she would speak.  My sanity is in the brink of disintegration.   

    Acacia trees loom over us casting moving shadows over the windshield.From a distance, green turns to yellow, then to red.   My foot gently steps on the break pedal.  On a full stop, the silence is magnified to an unbearable level.       

    You can come into my arms.  It’s okay don’t be alarmed. Come into me.
“Who the fuck is this chick?” I kept thinking to my self.
Then like a ghost’s whisper, a voice brushes over my ear.

 

    “Huh?” I turn my head to her in confusion.
    “Rihanna.  Her name is Rihanna.”

    I stared at her, agape.  My mind froze in profound confusion and disbelief.She takes off her smoked glasses.  Red turns to green.  A car burns rubber pass us.  Brooooom!   

    Her gaze disarms me.  “Baby, we’ll be late for mass.” 
I shake my head slowly once.  Then I nod a thousand times.   

    “Okay honey.  Okay.”  My foot on the gas pedal.

                            

September 23, 2007

bangaw shades

When you look at a person, you are looking at a hundred more dwelling inside him. That is my quirky attempt to encapsulate Sigmund Freud’s Psychoanalytic Theory in sixteen words.

This psychological Theory, the psychological theory, has become the most influential, not to mention controversial, theory for shrinks all over the world in the past century. Its validity alone could not have given it its prominence. Rather, it is its uniqueness and audacity that made it the chief theory in psychology, the one that all psychologists should first understand before any other mumbo-jumbos claiming to explain human behavior and mental processes.

Defy everything and be good at it and you will surely leave history emblazoned with your name. Freud, via his theory, did it in two ways. His unearthing of the unconscious is the first, and his conception of Libido Theory is the second. Buckle your seatbelts fellas for you’re off to a head-spinning ten-minute ride to the deepest recesses of your minds as mapped out by Freud. And I will be your guide.

The unconscious. Let me start by saying that this “thing” existed inside man since his creation,
and possibly even inside other beings that existed before him. Just like I always say in my lectures, it is comprised of the elements of our minds that we cannot access without the use of psychoanalytic techniques exercised by an expert psychologist. So what’s the big deal with being inaccessible? If it doesn’t hurt us, it could hibernate for all eternity, or it could even rot in there for all we care, right? Okay here’s the deal. The unconscious is a tumultuous aggregate of man’s most potent motives. What’s inside it steers every single act in his repertoire of behavior, from daily post-lunch-break chain-smoking to the creation the atom bomb.

As a student of Freudian concepts, it seems to me that this unconscious is the holy grail of psychology since it can potentially explain all of human behavior and mental processes. The problem—a really big one—is that it is inaccessible. Freud just gave mankind utter bad news, big time, by claiming that the causes of his acts and thinking are unknowable. In other words, we have always been (and will always be) slaves of a primitive dictator residing inside our minds, the existence of which is unknown to all who haven’t heard about psychoanalytic theory including all who lived before Freud. Get the picture?

All of a sudden man is facing a dead end, a stoic white wall where you are destined (doomed, is more like it) to be ignorant about your nature forever is written in sinister red paint. This leaves man dumbstruck and insecure. However, Freud left a little silver lining just enough to rouse the appetite for challenges in his successors. For instance he said that dreams and slips-of-the-tongue, referred to as Freudian slip in psychoanalytic jargon, can give us clues on what’s inside our unconscious. In addition, in the hands of a master psychoanalyst, some psychoanalytic techniques can potentially exhume cryptic notorious motives buried in the unconscious with all its cobwebs. Nevertheless, even with these means, the pilgrimage towards the valley of the unconscious remains as woebegone as finding a needle in a haystack.

Now that we know what’s the deal with the unconscious is, let me add a couple more vexed premises into our already vexed state of affairs. Most of what comprise the unconscious are socially unacceptable urges. This is the first premise. The two most powerful among these are aggression and sex. Put in another way, Freud is saying that we are predominantly aggressive and sexual beings. More precisely, he is saying that we are primarily sexual beings and secondarily aggressive ones. This is the second premise, which is crystallized in his Libido Theory. This theory asserts that sexual urge is the most important determinant of human behavior. Yes, you read it right. He is just full of surprises isn’t he?

By theorizing about what consists the unconscious, Freud enlightened us about our nature a little more. He made man less ignorant and insecure, by revealing its contents, but more malevolent and immoral nonetheless this time around. He solves one dilemma but purports another. Psychoanalysis is getting more deplorable by the moment huh? Or is it?

Is being a primarily sexual individual deplorable? Perhaps it is in the context of most societal norms. But from the perspective of the newly born infant, still in its pristine state and untainted by the laws of society, his sexual instinct is perfectly normal, devoid of malice, and healthy. The urge is as innocent as the urge to eat when hungry or the desire to drink when parched. It is essential for the propagation of the species. The moral dilemma on man’s sexual urge enters the fray only upon assimilation of societal code of ethics, like those learned from one’s religion for instance, into his personal belief system.

t is in this light that Freud wants us to view sex. It is through this naïve, objective and scientific lens that he intends us to regard Libido Theory. Taking a second look at the landscape, it appears it was society that incorporated malice into man’s concept of sex and sexuality. The immaculate newly born organism would be boggled with the thought that sex is taboo just as much as we would be perplexed at the thought that gobbling Macdo fries, especially when hungry, is obscene. Whenever we get uncomfortable with the ubiquitous sexual innuendos in Psychoanalytic Theory, perhaps it is us who are being malicious, not Freud and definitely not his object of study—man. Only when we learn to temporarily suspend our propensity for automatic value judgment (so automatic it’s almost like a knee-jerk reflex) on the concept of sex and sexuality when studying this brainchild-of-a-theory will we start to fathom and dig it. Only then will we discover its secrets.

The implications of the existence of the unconscious are double-edged. In a sense, it made us mere hypothesizers of our nature instead of vigorous discoverers and conquerors of it. Its discovery means that man’s nature can’t be completely discovered. Freud’s eureka made a sneaky ricochet and blew-up to become man’s ultimate hubris. On one side, it made us more evil and less good. Man became a sex-starved violent being.

Wait a minute. Perhaps it’s time for a little pause.

At this point it is wise to take a break at prying at the theory on the hot seat. Let us give our heads a good shake and look at it, this time around, with a different scope, in a different angle. I think the discovery of the unconscious and what’s inside it made man more special than ever before. Let me invoke another school of thought in psychology, the one that said the whole is greater than the sum of its parts.

Gestalt psychology is known for its contribution on the phenomenon of perception and configuration of experience. But personally speaking, it is its emphasis on gestalts, its gestaltism itself, that has unlimited implications. (By the way a gestalt is any organized whole that is greater than the sum of its parts). Man is a gestalt. Even with perfect analysis of all his components, he remains immune to absolute knowing and definition. At the same time, if there is an unconscious and if it is inaccessible 99.99% of the time, then analysis is not even possible since the most significant facets of man’s nature is uncharted territory. How can we analyze if we don’t even know what are the constituents of the whole to be analyzed?

Right. I’ll stop my technical bafflegab-streak and go straight to my crux. So why did I bring up gestaltism? By regarding man as a gestalt, we render him impervious to understanding and elusive to definition. And the discovery of the unconscious practically makes him inscrutable, unfathomable, and untouchable. He is now perched in a pedestal that is beyond the reach of reason. He is now shrouded by an esoteric and mystical nature knowable only to intelligence greater than ours. Putting it this way, man becomes special and not squalid, sublime and not malicious, venerable and not malevolent. Now that’s better, right guys? Let’s rightfully thank Freud who we almost crucified earlier, and Max Wertheimer, bedrock of gestalt psychology.

There is a cute ironic corollary presenting itself. Perhaps our intelligence is not competent enough to fathom our own nature. This is humbling and embarrassing at the same time. But what, again, is greater than our intelligence which it can’t conquer? It’s nothing else but us. We are too great to be understood by ourselves. Sounds weird, I know. But believe me, it’s a compliment.
The bangaw shades. Here‘s a fashion statement. Here’s a metaphor. Here’s a symbol of human nature. Here’s an embodiment of our psyche. Here’s a stroke of coolness.

Once fashionable way back when Lennon and company were on top of the world and Led Zeppelin was flaunting their musical wizardry all over the European airwaves while experimenting with Satanism, the bangaw shades has now made a bad-ass comeback. Resurrected by Jennifer Lopez and immortalized by Bono, it now finds itself back in mass-production, accessorizing millions of people, enhancing their aesthetic value. It is a symbol of humanity itself. Woaw!

We have to recognize its place in the order of meaning of things. Trying to be cool and cute aside, I think it bears profound significance. Culture is a hallmark of man. No other species has a highly evolved neocortex and a resultant sophisticated psyche, which subsumes consciousness and personality, that when they form society they create a highly dynamic culture. Besides religion, our sense of fashion and esthetics are two components of culture that separates us from all other species and exalts us into humanness. Fashion and esthetics are irrational but human, illogical but beautiful. Exactly like the bangaw shades.

Freud once said that civilization is a collective product of man’s sublimation—a maneuver of the mind that transforms socially unacceptable impulses into productive and socially esteemed behavior, just like painting nude is a sublimation of ones desire to have sex. Psychoanalysis proposes the idea that man’s behavior is the product of a complex cut-throat psychic process that eventually transforms taboo impulses into normative behavior. The resulting personality is a socially suitable one, a façade that covers and enhances the presentability—including the esthetics—of what is behind it. Exactly what the bangaw shades does to its wearer.

A facial ornament that conceals the window to the soul, the bangaw shades adds enigma to the persona. Instead of having direct view of the person’s naked eye, one deals with a face highlighted by smoked glass. It finishes the face. A face of a species made up of a concoction of primal urges, headstrong emotions and conceited rationality all wrapped in a range of behavior serving as a social façade. The bangaw shades finishes the person.

This article, I think, has lost track of its point. Haha. Pardon me for indulging in this freewheeling monologue without a compass and dragging you along with me. But my gut-feel tells me that even without finishing with a solid conclusion, we all grasped the unsaid inferences of this article. The number of possible inferences could be as many as the number of those who will read this.

This all started with a sight of a trinitian trotting her way down the campus “catwalk” in front of the CAS building. She was the quintessential beautiful trinitian. Oblivious of her surroundings, she made heads turn, including mine. And she was wearing the ubiquitous bangaw shades like a secret weapon for attracting attention. Then I thought about what would Freud think about that sight I just described.

I am not proposing a theory on why the society and/or the individual came up with the bangaw shades. I just wanted to flirt with the possible symbolisms it bears regarding humanity, primarily from the point of view psychology and psychoanalysis. That is such a Herculean role for just a little piece of plastic. What the heck, I’m fascinated by it.

With this essay serving as serendipitous primer for Psychoanalytic Theory, I hope I’ve justified my opening paragraph. Freud implied that there are many persons residing inside us. The bangaw shades makes everyone of them cool.




August 05, 2007

egocentrism

tint...
due to immaturity of his neurons and muscles, the word was born

tint...
due to a job-opennng in the society tasked to save the world, the man was born

tint...
bearer of an unconsciousness of herculean urges...

eros...
thanatos...
agape...

tint...
enthralled by the brilliance of Marx and Freud

awed by the boldess of Marx and Freud

tint...
sees through Bono's mind-eye...
peeks at the the world in a supine position...
pupilary dilatation...
atrial flutter...
with an apple in one hand...
and the heavens all over his visual field...

(an interesting case study for phenomenology)

stares the definition of Being right in the face...

Waabooom!!!...

confused and humbled by the experience...

yet finds happiness...

always...

that's me...


July 08, 2007

lament of a fool

pardon my bellyaching. I'm dissapointed with my writting lately. I'm all emotion and no skills. I guess it's just a case of too little practice. Actualy, I'm getting zero practice on writting over the past few months. All my efforts have been vent on my work and a lillte bit on guitar playing and working out. Writting has been relegated to the cellar. Poor little mistress.

wandering wonder

Her beauty is infinite. Taking her ethereal strides, she unleashes a spate of random allure. All these in a matter of seconds. But it felt like a thick fluid slow-mo for her beholders like me. An amendment in the veracity of reality. My universe, fraught with misleading paradoxes, unrelenting malice, and alienating confusions collides with hers. The product is a hybrid of two realities. Intoxicating…appalling...empty yet full. This so-called hyperexperience, for lack of a better term, eludes definition but makes perfect sense nonetheless. She is a whole new universe within her own universe. A marriage of two universes defined by perfect imperfections. The product is the apotheosis of utter sublimity. Three steps in front of me…three seconds lasting an eternity…and a thousand mannerisms. Three heartbeats that were the profoundest amongst thousands that was since the development of my fetal heart. This gives new meaning to stimulus-response psychology. I am the response. She is my stimulus. Everthing is bliss.

January 06, 2007

I Love You

"I slither in the secret recesses of the cosmos alongside Jupiter and Zeus until one day, in utter stealth, i show up in your face and be the greatest thing that ever happened to you...between the iris in your eyes and the stars in the skies lies an ethereal bond connecting your consciousness to mine...surprise me as I surprise you...just let me in...and you will begin to fathom everything...

November 03, 2006

backtrack

i have not written in a lo0o0o0o0o0o0onnnng while... I saw this peice i scribbled a year and half ago... chek it out

--------------------------------------------------------
if you are anywhere near my age (25 years 6
> months and 16 days) you most probably have
only
> 40 years to live. the last 15 of those, you're just
> going to reap what ever benifits you'll get from the
> hard work you did or be haunted by the bad
things
> you did before. So you practically only have 25
> years left to do the right things...to do things the
> right way. that means the first half of your life is
> done, and youre just left with the next half.
> so...LEARN TO LOVE, EXPRESS IT TO THE
> PEOPLE YOU LOVE, LET THEM FEEL YOU
> LOVE THEM, HELP THE NEEDY AND THE
> UNFORTUNATE, SEEK YOUr ENLIGHTENMENT
> AND FAITH, PLAY A LOT AND LAUGH A LOT,
> LISTEN TO MUSIC AND TO STAND UP
COMICS,
> DON'T JUST COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS BUT
> TREASURE THEM
>
ASWELL.............................................................
> ........................................................................
..
> ........................................................................
..
> you are lucky because out of 10 million sperm
> cells that came out during your procreation, you
> were the one who reached and fertilized the egg
> cell. you won over 9,999,999 other sperm cells!
> wheew! otherwise you do not exist...but wait, life
is
> not without irony. Once you started existing,
you
> only had ONE chance to live your life...no
second-
> time-arounds baby, no second chances....you
> can't go back to that first 25 years...it's an
> impossiblity, it's history...so take good care of
the
> next...

April 29, 2006

kompo

I am still in awe at how the creative juice can sometimes just flow out of you so effortlessly and as natural as an orgasmic release. Boys and girls, I’m not talking about sex ayt?

Sometime in the first couple of days of last January, I created one whole song in 30 minutes. It has 3 verses, a chorus that is repeated about four or five times, and a trying-to-be-cute of an interlude. This is a personal record. That was the shortest time it took me to create a whole song, complete with lyrics and melody. And it’s even one of the best I ever made.

A couple of hours ago, my third creation for the year 2006 found its way through my guitar strings and vocal chords, or whatever is left of it. This one took me more than a couple of hours. That’s well within the usual time it takes me to finish a song—two to four hours.

I was prying at my blog entries, unconsciously internalizing the thoughts and feelings that ran through me when I wrote them. Then came the sudden queer feeling that something is amiss.

For an infinitely ephemeral moment, everything stands still.

Then comes the itch, an itch that emanates from the deepest recesses of my being. An onslaught of creative inspiration permeates my consciousness.

In a snap of a finger, I was a biological entity beaming with mercurial ardor waiting to be expressed. I, once again, elevated my place in the hierarchy of God’s creations. As a creature that has the ability to capture a once meandering mute tune in the ghostly air, I was more than human, almost divine.

I had to abandon all my plans this afternoon. It’s like a duty to fulfill, a gift that has to be used when the opportunity comes.

The arrival of the itch is almost like the appearance of and angel. God’s messenger.

In its presence, you have to abandon everything and let the rapturous inspiration enter your mind and heart.

When the itch comes, you have to let it rule you.

The song is entitled Taken. Generally falling under the Folk music genre, Taken has the warmth of James Taylor songs in the seventies. It sounds like an inferior version of John Mayer’s Daughters.

Inferior to any song or not, I still like it. I like my own songs like they’re my children. I’m as loyal to them as they are loyal to me. Each one has a history, a meaning, a memory in my journey through this drama we call life.

These amorphous melodic creations give me solace, refuge, sanctuary. Ours is a relationship built on an endless tapestry of serenades. Sounds good eh.

April 28, 2006

ber de

This will be my worst and crappiest entry ever. 

Among the myriad of colors that the human eye can discern, green is my ultimate most favorite color.  Now the way those last seven words were put together is not the way I speak.

Obviously you don’t have any clue to what I’m talking about.  Might as well stop reading now for there’s no way you can understand the rest of this cathartic crap.  Aside from perhaps a couple of people, the rest of you can stop reading and spend your time on a more productive activity. 

Yes it’s a fact.  Green is my ultimate most favorite color.  Since the time when consciousness entered my brain, green has been my ultimate most favorite color.

You can ask any of my friends.  It is!  And get this.  Lately, only this year, it became my lucky color as well.  A friend who has a thing for pointed shoes and peppermint tea knows this for a fact. 

For the greater part of my childhood, I liked the color green so much that I thought it was everyone’s favorite color as well!  You know, the way everyone likes to gulp a cold drink during summer or the way everyone likes his or her fruit ripe and sweet rather than sour. 

I thought green was a universal color favorite of man.

Of course I learned that that wasn’t the case when I grew up, yet it remained to be my favorite.  Through the years I gaind an aqcuired-taste for other colors as well like black, blue, and rusty red.  But still, green is my ultimate most favorite color.

Do you know the way some things can give you both happiness and sadness?  The way some people can be your source of both profound pleasure and excruciating pain? 

Green has now become to be the color I love the most, and the color that I concurrently abhor.   

It was Saturday last January when green became my lucky color.  Fate really has a great sense of irony, for it was also Saturday last March when the color green was the object of blatant blasphemy.

My only request.  Don’t claim that green is your ultimate most favorite color if you don’t mean it, especially if such a claim is for some other squalid act like  flirting.

Or you’re going to hurt me.

But then again, it’s a free country.  If I have some sort of incestuous desire for the color green, it’s my problem, isn’t it?  It’s my perversion, not anyone else’s, right? 

It’s not anyone else’s problem but mine.

So I’m going to take it back.  You can talk about the color green in vain as much as you want.  From now on everyone can claim that green is his ultimate most favorite color if he desires to, whether he means it or not, and I won’t complain.

I guess I give more importance to people’s inherent right and freedom to express themselves than to my love for the color green.         

In the first place, I have no right over other people’s lives.  And I don’t have the necessary documents to prove that the color green is mine. 

The color green is not mine. 

Yet i know of no other color. 

This renders my world monochromatic...melancholic...forlorn...at the mercy of the sullen sobriety of black and white.

Everything left is black and white.

Even as a metaphorical catharsis, this article has totally lost its point.  I warned you not to read.

      

April 17, 2006

passing through

The proverbial glass of water that is half empty or half full? I finally get it.

To a biologist, it begins upon conception, the union of the raving sperm cell and the infinitely more poised egg cell. To a writer, it is a seventy-year-long story that has more sad endings than happy ones. And to a wise man, it is one’s existence which morale sometimes cannot be fathomed.

I don’t known what life is to me. The most that I can come up for a definition is a goofy four-word sentence—It’s a bittersweet thang.

It’s a journey to places you never knew existed, or to places you’ve heard about but never been to. There’s a place called Success, which is one of the last destinations you’ll arrive at. You’ll be a frequent visitor to Pain and it’s neighboring country, Sadness.

To some, Confusion and Emptiness are two turfs they oftentimes find themselves dwelling for long periods of time.

But there’s one place where all of us pass by once, twice, or even several times in our lives. Love is a day in Disney Land in your Tokyo trip. It’s a visit to Japan’s angelic geisha’s for American soldiers during the world war. It’s a mid summer affair in Morocco with the person who gives you a ride to the heavens and back.

It’s your boat ride across the moon river with someone whose fingers are locked with yours.

We are all pilgrims to a valley in the middle of nowhere.

Life is a pilgrimage.

It’s a million-mile long hi-way where you sometimes travel with many others, at times with just one companion, but most of the time you travel by yourself.

Some of those you meet on the road are amazing people. Your walk with them can be so fun-filled that you give part of yourself as a parting gift when you part ways. To some you give your hand, to others you give your foot. You can even give your butt if you wish.

And there are those to whom you give your heart.

Life is that glass of water. It’s never full to its brim, until the time the person who holds your heart gives his or hers to you.

And the Creator is the only one who can keep your glass from emptying itself again.